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What makes you different?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 07:42

What makes you different?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

What seemingly minor decision or moment in your past ended up having a massive impact on your entire life trajectory?

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Why did my bipolar girlfriend split up with me?

Agree?

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

What is the story of how you met your spouse?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Is it common for Americans to feel "trapped" due to the size and distance of their country from other countries/continents? Is this feeling an exaggeration or a reality?

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

What is the most memorable thing that happened in your college days?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

My grandmother deeded me her house before she passed last year. Her son still lives there refusing to move. What steps should I take to have him removed?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

What kind of book did you write after turning 55?

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

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Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

What is quantum entanglement?

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Why are people with borderline personality disorder so capable of ripping someone apart with their words?

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

How many wishes do people get on their birthday?

What makes you YOU.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

My girlfriend lied and said she never gave oral until me. She was very skilled. I’m upset with her lying. Do I dump her?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

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Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

So, keep on experimenting.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

Trump is going to target known criminals in the country illegally for deportation. The Democrats have vowed to fight him every step of the way. Don't they understand this is one of the issues that cost them the white house, the house and senate?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

So, what actually makes us all different?

What do feminists mean when they say they want to ‘normalize’ menstruation and its discussion?

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Can you make it?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

What if he’d come outside?

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu